when i picked up a book from borders

i went to borders the other day and picked up a book that was quite interesting.

"you can't invent in people what is not there."
"people do not change. you cannot change people, and no one has the right to change you."

there was one more thing that i cant exactly remember what it said, but it was something like..
"we all have our own image of perfection, or an image that we all try to achieve. but the image that other people see is very different from what we see in ourselves. if we try to get that perfect image, we will never find happiness."

just found it interesting. :)